Setting boundaries with people is hard, though when I've done that, often ruffling some feathers in the process, I was happier and people respected me. I accept that people won't approve of my actions 100% of the time and that's OK. You're right, sometimes people will push against your boundaries so consistency is critical. As always, be clear on what's OK and what's not OK in as polite and respectful a manner as possible, then stick with your boundaries. True friends and cherished family members will learn that you're serious and respect your limits. If not, then perhaps it's OK that these people are no longer a part of your life. These moments are hard, but I've been much happier afterward.
Wow, no way. Thanks for sharing. That's crazy how you brought this up
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Setting boundaries with people is hard, though when I've done that, often ruffling some feathers in the process, I was happier and people respected me. I accept that people won't approve of my actions 100% of the time and that's OK. You're right, sometimes people will push against your boundaries so consistency is critical. As always, be clear on what's OK and what's not OK in as polite and respectful a manner as possible, then stick with your boundaries. True friends and cherished family members will learn that you're serious and respect your limits. If not, then perhaps it's OK that these people are no longer a part of your life. These moments are hard, but I've been much happier afterward.
Thanks for thoughtfully sharing a tough topic.