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Bruce Landay's avatar

I’m glad you found AI helpful for your situation and it allowed you to slow down and think, then respond as your best self. That sounds like a great outcome.

I personally struggle with using AI that way. I feel like we lose our own capacity and over a generation will we know how to deal with each other ? Will we need AI to intervene because we lost that capacity for ourselves? I ask that because I’m from a generation old enough where we had to learn to deal with people face to face vs texts. The youngest generation has always had technology and having a conversation can be difficult for them. Is depending on AI to deal with others in tough situations in their future?

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Christopher Lind's avatar

Yeah, I can understand your concern and my goal was less about saying “this how how to always use ai” and more of a way to show how in certain moments it can come in for an assist without taking over.

I think that’s what it’s so important to not just go through the motions but to reflect on them and see what you’re doing and why.

I think AI making things worse is a choice we make, not something it does on its own. People who choose to grow will grow. People who choose to find shortcuts will atrophy.

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Brent Lantzy's avatar

Great read! I've found the key isn't just feeding the AI more context but bringing sharper discernment to the questions themselves. The more carefully I frame what I'm really asking, the more meaningful the responses become. When used well, AI is less a shortcut and more a mirror.

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